After 32+ years navigating a marriage that statistically should have ended, raising two disabled children, and surviving trauma that destroys most people, I discovered what actually creates lasting change.
Not more talking. Not more therapy. Not more trying to explain it differently so he finally gets it.
Real transformation happens when you heal the subconscious patterns making his behavior feel unbearable, and your own patterns that keep you stuck.
I'm Amunet Burgueno, Master Hypnotherapist with over 11,000 hours of deep trauma work.
I Help Women Exhausted by Good Men
He's not a bad person. But his defensiveness, his emotional immaturity, the choices that leave you wondering what he was thinking... it's breaking you.
You've tried everything. Talking. Therapy. Explaining it more calmly, at better times. Nothing gets through.
You don't need another communication strategy. You need to stop carrying the weight of his patterns and heal your own.
That's when everything shifts. Not because you fixed him. Because you're no longer devastated by what you can't control. And when you change, the whole dynamic between you changes too.
You're not crazy. And you're not asking for too much.
You married a good man. You know he loves you. You can feel that he cares.
But his behavior is exhausting you.
Every time you try to tell him something hurt you, he gets defensive.
Makes it about how you're attacking him. And suddenly you're managing his feelings about the fact that you have feelings.
You're not asking him to be perfect. You just want to be heard.
Instead, you're in the shower replaying the conversation for the hundredth time. Wondering why this devastates you for days when your girlfriend gets annoyed with her husband for an hour and moves on.
You've tried talking. You've tried therapy. You've tried explaining it differently, more calmly, at better times.
Nothing's getting through.
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And somewhere deep down, you sense it's not just him.
Something from your past is making his behavior hit harder than it should.
Old wounds you thought you'd dealt with are getting triggered every time he shuts down or gets defensive.
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His behavior is the problem. And there's something underneath making it feel unbearable.
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You love him. But you're not sure how much longer you can keep carrying this.
Here's what I know after 32 years of marriage and 11,000+ hours of hypnotherapy sessions.
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You can't talk your way out of this. And you can't think your way through it.
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Those old wounds driving your response don't live in your thinking brain. They live in your subconscious. That's where we need to go.
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When you heal at that level, his defensiveness stops devastating you. It just becomes his limitation. Not proof that you're not lovable.
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You stop replaying conversations for days. You stop carrying the emotional weight of the entire marriage by yourself.
You're not suddenly fine with his immaturity. You still wish he'd grow up. But it doesn't wreck you anymore.
And something else happens that most women don't expect. When you stop reacting from that wounded place, he actually has space to see his own behavior.
Not because you fixed him.
Because you're not absorbing the impact of his patterns anymore.
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That's what happened in my marriage. I didn't fix my husband. I healed me. Our marriage transformed anyway.
This is what I help women do in The 90-Day Marriage Miracle.
We go straight to the subconscious patterns making his behavior feel unbearable and heal them at the root.
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Not more talking. Not more coping strategies. Transformation that actually changes how you experience your marriage.
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He just did it again.
Maybe it was the defensiveness. Maybe he shut down. Maybe he made another choice that left you wondering what he was thinking.
And now you're in the shower replaying it, exhausted, trying to figure out what to do.
You've been here before. You'll probably be here again next month.
And you've been so focused on what he did, what he said, how to get through to him, that you've lost yourself somewhere in all of it.
You know you need to figure out what you actually want. You've tried asking yourself. But alone with your thoughts, you just keep circling back to him.
What he did. Why he did it. Whether it will ever change.
What if you had someone in your corner while you faced it?
The "What Do I Actually Want" Session
For 90 minutes, it's not about him. You'll have support while you face the questions you've been avoiding. You're not alone with your thoughts anymore. You'll finally have space to hear what your body, mind, and spirit have been trying to tell you.
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You'll let yourself feel what you actually feel without editing it for anyone else.
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You'll leave knowing what you want. Not what you think you should want. Not what would be easiest. What you actually want. Your own voice back. Permission to want it. Solid ground instead of spinning.
A next step that feels right, not just reactive.
I've sat with hundreds of women who were exhausted, heartbroken, and ready to give up on good men.With 11,000+ hours of hypnotherapy experience and 1,500+ sessions focused on trauma, I help you reconnect with the man you married
and build something better together.
​7-Years Standing.
When you heal the patterns from your past, every relationship changes. Your marriage. Your family. How you communicate. How you show up. Here's what Krystal experienced:
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"The work I've done with Amunet has forever changed my life and that's no exaggeration.
I've dealt with a lot of trauma, buried trauma, and although I've been in therapy most of my life, I've never experienced anything like I have with Amunet and the hypnosis work she's done for me.
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We've had multiple sessions and there have been moments where I've never felt happier and at peace in all my life.
If you have had toxic parental relationships, a dysfunctional family, abuse (emotional, physical, sexual), if your self-worth and self-confidence has tanked - and traditional therapy hasn't been as effective as you'd hoped, PLEASE try this program and talk to Amunet.
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I have to admit that I was a tad skeptical. I have a degree in psychology, and have put a lot of stock into traditional therapy. However, let me tell you, this has been the most effective form of therapy for someone like me. I actually was able to communicate effectively to my mother, and tell her what I needed from her - which I've never been able to do in my 38 years.
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I have the courage, strength, and confidence to work through my stuff. I am so much more at ease and relaxed. I actually have the tools that people always talk about, but don't actually use or even know what they are.
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I'm imploring anyone who's looking for help - real actual help - this is it. Amunet is one of a kind. She's down to earth, real, sane, and a master of her craft. I will forever be grateful for her." Krystal Silva
You've been carrying this long enough.
​If you're ready to stop being devastated by his behavior and finally heal what's underneath, let's talk.
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Book a free Marriage Rescue Strategy Call.
We'll look at what's really going on in your marriage, what's getting triggered from your past, and whether The 90-Day Marriage Miracle is the right fit for you.
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No pressure. No pitch if it's not right. Just clarity on your next step.
Click Here To Book Your Free Call
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Or if you want to take the first step...
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Take the free Marriage Crisis Trigger Assessment and find out which pattern takes over when he gets defensive.
Do you shut down? Escalate? Try desperately to make him understand?
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Knowing your pattern is the first step to breaking it.
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Serving Granite Bay, Roseville, Rocklin, El Dorado Hills, Sacramento, CA and beyond.
Online sessions available worldwide.
"When I first came to Amunet I was at my lowest point with my anxiety and panic attacks."
"I couldn't go to the grocery store, I couldn't be alone in the house, then very quickly my anxiety escalated to the point I couldn't even take a shower without having a panic attack.
My world was getting smaller by the day and my thoughts more disturbing.
I'm more than halfway through the program and I am almost a completely different person. I'm the person I wanted to be, the person I wanted to get back to, but better.
Amunet genuinely has changed my life." Emily Alexander
With my Good Karma Guarantee, if you're unhappy for any reason, I'll earn back your trust and loyalty.
🌼If you need extra help during your program, I'll be there for you.
🌈If you want to modify your hypnosis recording after the program completes, I'm happy to help.
🧠If you have any questions or have concerns, I've got you covered.
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💰You'll get the support you want and need. In fact, I'll put in $500.00 worth of my time should you genuinely need it.
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I get it. Investing in your future can feel scary. But with my Good Karma Guarantee, you will be taken care of, which means you can feel certain you're making a wise investment.